Supporting a Friend or a Loved One with Autism
Autism can be a difficult condition to live with in a world that is not always accommodating or understanding. If you have a friend, family member, or loved one with autism, it is important to offer support and help them feel included.
Autism is a Spectrum and Every Person with Autism is Different
People with autism are individuals with their own unique personalities, feelings, likes, and dislikes. It is important to remember that autism is a spectrum, and not everyone with autism is the same. Some people with autism may have more challenges than others, but all deserve to be treated with respect, dignity, and kindness. Get to know them as individuals by spending time with them and learning about their unique personalities.
Social Cues & Communication
Many times, a person that has autism might have trouble understanding social cues when someone is being sarcastic or if someone is joking. This can lead to a lot of confusion and anxiety, as they may not understand why someone is saying something that seems hurtful. So, if you think your friend or loved one does not understand what is being said to them, take the time out to ask them about it and explain if need be. While interacting, be clear and direct in your communication…use simple language and avoid jargon.
Boundaries & Personal Space
People who have autism might have different needs and preferences to feel comfortable and happy. Be patient with someone if they have trouble expressing themselves and ask them what they need to feel completely supported. Their specific needs may include a certain level of personal space and interaction. It is important to respect their boundaries and not force them to do anything they are not comfortable with. People with autism may not like to be touched, even by people they know and trust – always ask permission in these situations.
It is important to be patient and understanding when interacting with someone with autism. While people with autism may have different needs and preferences than neurotypical people, it is best to not assume what those might be. Instead, communicate clearly and respectfully, and help create a more understanding and inclusive world for all.
Matthew A. Webster, MA, MS, ED.D, LPC
Martin Counseling, PLLC in Katy, TX.
Dr. Matt Webster is a professional educator, nutritionist, and therapist located in the Houston, Texas area. He specializes in couples therapy, sexuality, and maladaptive eating patterns with a focus on the role of nutrition. More About Matt >>
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